EUROPE TALKS END WITH HINT OF GAINS
EEC foreign mins meeting in Paris on Dec 10 rept move toward resolution of US and French dispute on oil diplomacy; Dutch Foreign Min Max van der Stoel says community agreed on 3 basic points that French Pres Giscard d'Estaing will put to Pres Ford at forthcoming meeting in Martinique: negotiations between consumers and producers, avoidance of confrontation between consumers and producers, and 'certain amt of pre-consultation' among consumers; last point represents French concession to Amer insistence that consumers work out bargaining position before facing producers (M)