Life of Phnom Penh Slowly Grinds Down
Assessment of soc and econ situation in Cambodia during current Communist-led insurgent offensive; some Amers working at US Embassy in Phnom Penh comment; Premier Long Boret comments on his dwindling role in Govt; inequities of Govt decisions and rampant official corruption assessed; people most hurt by current offensive are refugees, which make up 50% of Cambodian population; most of middle and upper classes are not directly effected by insurgent attacks because they live outside of cities, where rockets usually fall; illus of Cambodian refugees in roadside bunker and scene at Phnom Penh airport (M)