THOROUGHLY MODERN GRANDMA: GOOD JOBS AND JOGGING SUITS
ON the eve of Thanksgiving Day the new grandmother was up to her elbows in cranberry sauce and bragging about the baby again: ''He's the most beautiful, smart, funny, unique, absolutely incredible grandbaby. He's seven months old and his name is Rafael. Rafael Friedan.'' Her name is Betty Friedan. Her new role has made her the envy of contemporaries in the feminist movement, it seems. ''They're dying, dying for their children to produce grandchildren,'' said Mrs. Friedan, a 61-year-old mother of three who knows the feeling. ''It's a basic generative urge not unique to women. I think there will be a sharper savoring of the experience with this generation of grandparents because we cannot take it for granted as much.''