EMPLOYERS OFFERING SEMINARS TO HELP THE WORKING PARENT
''IT'S not easy to raise children and work at the same time,'' Stephen Segal told the 19 Bankers Trust employees assembled in a conference room in the company's Park Avenue skyscraper. ''If you're a man,'' he said, looking at one of the four men in the room, ''the chances are that your father was not as closely involved in parenting as you. And if you're a woman the chances are your mother didn't work in the way you are. I think it's helpful to think of yourselves as pioneers.''