CHILD-CARE HOMES DIVIDE COMMUNITIES
WEST HARTFORD, Conn. Around 8 o'clock each weekday morning a handful of cars pull up in front of the neatly kept frame home here belonging to Susan and Paul DeLude. Toddlers and infants ranging from a few months to 4 years old are escorted inside. The children, who never number more than six, scamper into the den adjoining the gleaming white kitchen or run down to the blue and white playroom the DeLudes have built for them in the basement. If the weather is fine, they will go outdoors to play in the small backyard. Mrs. DeLude, trim, dark-haired and 38 years old, is one of a growing number of licensed home-based day-care operators who take care other people's children for a fee. Yet while she has won the admiration of the mothers whose infants she has helped raise over the last nine years, Mrs. DeLude, and others like her, are not necessarily highly regarded by their neighbors. Instead, hundreds of these home-based day-care facilities are the focus of a controversy that is dividing communities all over the country, according to officials at the National Advocacy Project on Family Day Care at the Children's Foundation, a nonprofit organization in Washington, financed in part by the Carnegie Foundation.