SHIFT FROM 212 TO 718 CODE PAINS 3 BOROUGHS
It has been called everything from an ''insult'' to a ''punishment from God,'' and the months since it was announced have brought threats of secession and revenge. People scoffed at the ''dowdy numbers'' and pouted like spoiled children about how Manhattan gets ''everything it wants.'' But the inevitable will be confronted at midnight Monday, when Brooklyn, Queens and Staten Island assume unequivocally the area code of 718. Those who neglect to use the three numbers when calling those boroughs will find themselves enmeshed in telephone company recordings that exhort them to redial using 718.
