FOR EVERY SPORT, PLAYERS FIND A CLUB
AT dawn on a Saturday, Wayne Fox, a Manhattan investment banker, floats silently over the hillocks, farms and rivers of southern New Jersey in a hot-air balloon. A few hours later, Maurice Matiz, a computer consultant, rises and goes to practice his Frisbee throw, preparing for his next nationwide tour with Kaboom!, a team of amateurs whose game is known as ultimate Frisbee. And if weather permits, Patrick McGarrigle, a Columbia University junior, puts on white slacks and a blue blazer, and, mallet in hand, meets friends to perfect his game of croquet. ''We are just people who want to party and have fun and be pompous for a couple of hours,'' the 19-year-old Mr. McGarrigle explains. The three New Yorkers are among the tens of thousands of people who put aside their usual chores each week to take part in what outsiders may consider offbeat sports - a wide variety of organized activities in the metropolitan area that have small but devoted followings.
