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LEAD: Hachette to Buy Grolier Hachette, France's top publisher, has arranged to buy Grolier, an American educational publisher, in a deal worth about $449 million. Page D1. Hijackers' New Threat A Kuwaiti jet's hijackers pledged to carry out a ''slow, quiet massacre'' of their hostages, but were persuaded to pull back on the threat.