To a Drumbeat of Losses to AIDS, A Rethinking of Traditional Grief
When Bill Ceyrolles visits New York, he says, he feels like a Jew returning to Berlin after the Holocaust. "The world I knew is gone," says Mr. Ceyrolles, a social worker in Washington. "I walk down the streets and I think that's where so-and-so lived, and there's where another friend lived, and another. It's overwhelming, so many have died." Mr. Ceyrolles, who is gay and is himself infected with H.I.V., the virus that causes AIDS, estimated that he has "known well" 100 people who have died of AIDS in the last five years and that well over half of his close friends are sick or dead. He has also watched others disappear: a waiter at his favorite restaurant and a man who cut his hair.