ON THE FRONT LINES WITH: Joseph Steffan; From Midshipman To Gay Advocate
HE is every mother's dream for her daughter: an ex-midshipman, handsome as can be, with a principled intelligence and a diffident way. But there is a hitch: he's gay. And therein lies the story of Joseph Steffan, his battle with himself and his battle with the Navy. These are hectic days for the 28-year-old Mr. Steffan. As the fight over homosexuals and the military rages on, he is in demand. Everyone, it seems, wants to hear how he was kicked out of Annapolis for being gay just a week before graduation in 1987. One minute, it's the networks; the next, the news weeklies, all asking about his lawsuit to be reinstated in the Navy. (It was dismissed in late 1991 in Federal District Court in Washington and is being appealed.) All the while, he tours the country, speaking at colleges about gay men and lesbians in the military and promoting his book, "Honor Bound" (Villard), now in its second printing.