New Yeltsin, Old Problem
Analysis of US-Russian relationship in light of Helsinki summit between Pres Clinton and Pres Yeltsin; Yeltsin, who only months ago was an enfeebled leader, now looks and acts confident and in charge, to relief of American officials; they say Yeltsin did Clinton a big favor, not just by repaying past loyalties, but by looking past awkwardness and embarrassment of NATO expansion to put down a bet on Russia's future; Yeltsin's new confidence remains to be tested when he faces questioning by Russian Parliament (M)