Flight 800 Families Take Varied Issues to Hearings on Crash
Some 75 relatives of victims of Trans World Airlines Flight 800 crash in July 1996 bring variety of agendas to National Transportation Safety Board hearings, Baltimore; some seek clarity after months of perplexity and grief; others say they want to thank probers; many seek to draw attention to range of issues; critics focus particularly on Suffolk County, NY, Medical Examiner Dr Charles V Wetli, charging missteps, delays and lapses; photo (M)