Firing Leaflets and Electrons, U.S. Wages Information War
US military begins ambitious assault on Iraq, using electronic and psychological weapons on information battlefield; cyber-warfare experts have waged e-mail assault on Iraq's political, military and economic leadership, urging them to break with Saddam Hussein; wave of calls have gone to private cellphone numbers of specially selected officials inside Iraq; more than eight million leaflets have been dropped on Iraq warning antiaircraft missile operators and ground troops that they face destruction; Air Force Special Operations planes are broadcasting directly to Iraqi people in Arabic with programs that mimic styles of local radio stations; US military planners are hoping to break Iraqi military's will to fight and to sway public opinion; maps; photos (M)