Couple Charged With Neglect in Son's Death in New Jersey
Police charge Tahija Handberry and Wesley White of Asbury Park, NJ, with manslaughter and child neglect in starvation death of their 14-month-old son, Jmeir White; he had been seen by pediatrician, visiting nurse and caseworker in months leading up to his death in Aug; case again raises questions about New Jersey's system for protecting its poorest children; Handberry, dwarf who is legally blind, told caseworker that her son's small size was due to fact that he too was dwarf; photos (M)


