GERMANS BID DUTCH ACCEPT NATO MISSILE
West Germany urges Netherlands to deploy new American intermediate‐range nuclear missiles on its territory; says it could not deploy weapons in event of Dutch refusal; has made deployment of missiles contingent on parallel participation of other nonnuclear NATO members; reportedly wants Dutch participation to dampen Soviet charges of West German militarism as well as criticisms within left wing of Social Democratic Party; disclosure of West German recommendation is made by Netherlands Parliament's Defense Commission chairman Klaas G De Vries; map and diagram comparing nuclear arsenals of NATO and Warsaw Pact nations (M)