Asbury Park Journal; Residents Caught Between a Rock Club and a Hard Place
Stone Pony nightclub is in center of dispute over redevelopment plan for Asbury Park, NJ; developer Ocean Front Acquisitions wants to move club away from area earmarked for new housing, but supporters of club are horrified by notion, saying town was built for entertainment, not as bedroom community, and its history must be honored; residents would like to see development and revitalization of their town and some are resentful of outsiders interference on behalf of Stone Pony; photos (M)